The BIG D, yes, as in DIVORCE/Gift of Love at Christmas

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If you have ever been, are going through or about to take on this ugly word, I wish you all the best. I think for me getting divorced and was one of the hardest parts of my life so far, ah yes, if we could only Eat our way through Italy, Pray our way through India and learn the lessons of love in Bali that would be a definite way to go. Elizabeth Gilbert you did it right. I thank you for your lovely, sad, experimental strength for doing what you did and then writing about it to share with the world. I am not sure there is a right way for divorce but crying on bathroom floors in any relationship is just an awful way to live. Again, thank you, and Julia Robert’s, kudos to you for making it come to life on the big screen for everyone to experience visualIy, two different ways to help us understand our own feelings while trudging through the emotions . 


I feel for each and everyone of you who might be going through this right now, especially with the economy the Holiday’s and all the other things going on in the world right now. I think the need to give and receive love is the most important part in all our lives. From our parents, children, siblings, families, friends, lovers, boyfriends girlfriends who ever it is we all need to keep the love in our hearts so we have the ability to share it with everyone we meet. Staying  strong and sweet through whatever life has blessed us with, living in the moment and remembering that we are truly blessed.


I saw the CNN Hero awards yesterday here in Florence Italy and saw all the gifts of love that people are doing in every part of the world. The winner was the woman on human trafficking in India, thank you Demi Moore for showing your intentions to stop this behavior. I find it hard to believe that this behavior even exists and it tears me up to even think about. It’s the 21st century we know better, STOP this MADNESS.


It’s Christmas weekend right now so I wish you a very Merry Christmas with love and light in your world, spread that light to everyone you come in contact with. Rich or poor, good and bad let’s seek to make our lives and Universe a better, safer, more loving place. BE full of that bright light that shines around each and everyone of us. Yes, that light we (ourselves) seem to forget we even have, remember, OWN that light, and shine it on all.


God Bless and a Merry~ Merry Christmas, Happy~ Happy New Year and a better life everyday no matter what we may be struggling with in our own lives. 


Love Always~Always Love,
45 and Fabulous, 

Forever Beautiful and Staying that Way

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